Relieve My Stress

mortgage refinance What you say to yourself effects your stress quotient every day. In order to get from where you are to where you want to go you first need to look at what your negative thinking looks like. What does that old negative program look like? Once you know how to recognize the programs you’d be better off without, you can begin the process of getting rid of them by replacing them with something better.

 juegos   These negative messages have been absorbed and internalized by us since childhood. It’s so subtle and habitual you most likely don’t even notice. Do any of these sound familiar:

• Why did I say that?
• I really sounded stupid?
• That was a stupid thing to do?
• It’s all my fault.
• I’m out of shape
• I’m a fat slob
• I can never loose weight
• God I look terrible
• I can’t win for trying.

property management  Negative self talk is a reflection of our own self concept of how we feel about ourselves. The more we question and judge ourselves the more we question our own “okayness”. The less loving we feel toward ourselves the less competent we feel as human beings. The lower our self concept is the more likely we are to interpret situations and conditions as being unhealthy and dangerous to us and the more likely we are to experience stress.

One way to know if your self talk is faulty is by focusing on the problem rather then the solution. This is the mindset of failure, to see what won’t work rather then what will. Is your glass half empty or half full.

If you anything like me I’m sure you’ve tried things in the past. Well have you ever tried to keep an old clunker running. Isn’t that like pouring good money after bad. We try things that in way touch the root of the problem. You may have purchased a book that said believe in yourself. If you don’t have what you wan then you must not believe. If you believe that means “I have $100,000 in the bank.” But let me ask you this – have you ever really believe it? I mean truly believe it in your heart you had the magic $100,000 in the bank. Well if you truly believed then guess what, you’d have $100,000 in the bank!

The problem is much of what you read is motivation and although that’s good it’s not the way our brain works.

But all is not lost. There is a way to change. That is get to the root of your situation and change your core programming. The power of repetition. If you don’t believe me take a look at these product slogans:

• Betcha can’t eat just one
• Good to the last drop
• Please don’t squeeze the ____
• Your in good hands

Answers

• Lays potato chip
• Maxwell house
• Charmin
• Allstate

So begin right now and take a reflective walk and honor thyself.

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